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RSE Policy 2022-23

 

Relationship and Sex Education Policy                

Last reviewed on:

07/12/22

Next review due by:

07/12/23

Contents

1. Aims        3

2. Statutory requirements        3

3. Policy development        5

4. Definition        5

5. Curriculum        5

6. Delivery of RSE        6

7. Use of external organisations and materials        7

8. Roles and responsibilities        8

9. Parents’ right to withdraw        9

10. Training        10

11. Monitoring arrangements        10

Appendix 1: Curriculum map        11

Appendix 2: By the end of primary school children should know        12

Appendix 3: Parent form: withdrawal from sex education within RSE        13

1. Aims

The aims of relationships and sex education (RSE) at our school are to:

  • Provide a framework in which sensitive discussions can take place
  • Prepare children for puberty, and give them an understanding of sexual development and the importance of health and hygiene
  • Help children develop feelings of self-respect, confidence and empathy
  • Create a positive culture around issues of relationships and identity
  • Teach children the correct vocabulary to describe themselves and their bodies

At Co-op Academy Princeville  we believe that the teaching of RSE is extremely important for our children. The RSE that we deliver is carefully planned and intertwines throughout our curriculum. We ensure that RSE is taught in an age appropriate and sensitive way.

2. Statutory requirements

As a primary academy, we must provide relationships education to all children under section 34 of the Children and Social Work Act 2017.

We don’t have to follow the National Curriculum, but we are expected to offer all children a curriculum that is similar to the National Curriculum including requirements to teach science. This would include the elements of sex education contained in the science curriculum, taught in the Year 5 Unit -  ‘Animals, including
Humans’
.

In teaching RSE, we’re required by our funding agreements to have regard to guidance issued by the secretary of state, as outlined in section 403 of the Education Act 1996. 

We also have regard to legal duties set out in:

  • Sections 406 and 407 of the Education Act 1996
  • Part 6, chapter 1 of the Equality Act 2010
  • The Public Sector Equality Duty (as set out in section 149 of the Equality Act 2010). This duty requires public bodies to have due regard to the need to eliminate discrimination, advance equality of opportunity and foster good relations between different people when carrying out their activities.

At Co-op Academy Princeville, we teach RSE as set out in this policy.

3. Policy development

This policy has been developed in consultation with staff, children and parents. The consultation and policy development process involved the following steps:

  1. Review – a member of staff or working group pulled together all relevant information including relevant national and local guidance

  1. Staff consultation – all school staff were given the opportunity to look at the policy and make recommendations

  1. Parent/stakeholder consultation – parents and any interested parties were invited to attend a meeting about the policy

  1. Children consultation – we investigated what exactly children want from their RSE

  1. Ratification – once amendments were made, the policy was shared with governors and ratified

4. Definition

RSE is about the emotional, social and cultural development of children, and this involves learning about relationships, sexual health, sexuality, healthy lifestyles, diversity and personal identity.

RSE involves a combination of sharing information, exploring issues and values.

RSE is not about the promotion of sexual activity.

5. Curriculum

Our curriculum is set out as per Appendix 1. This is reviewed and adapted on an annual basis.

We have developed the curriculum in consultation with parents, children and staff, taking into account the age, needs and feelings of children.

We base our curriculum on the ‘Coram Life Education and SCARF ’ published curriculum. The chosen content prepares children well for their next stage and for adulthood. We have planned carefully to ensure children build their knowledge in a logical, progressive sequence.

Primary-age children will often ask their teachers or other adults questions pertaining to sex or sexuality which go beyond what is set out for Relationships Education. Given ease of access to the internet, children whose questions go unanswered may turn to inappropriate sources of information. If difficult questions are asked, teachers are expected to respond in an appropriate manner and inform parents of any conversations dealing with content that falls outside of statutory guidance.

Taking into consideration the views of the school community, we have chosen not to teach children about sexual intercourse and how a baby is conceived.

The curriculum will focus on:

  • Preparing boys and girls for the changes that adolescence brings

6. Delivery of RSE

RSE is taught within the personal, social, health and economic (PSHE) education curriculum. Biological aspects of RSE are taught within the science curriculum  (Year 5, ‘Animals, Including Humans’), and other aspects, such as tolerance and respect, are included in religious education (RE).

Relationships education focuses on teaching the fundamental building blocks and characteristics of positive relationships including:

  • Families and people who care for me
  • Caring friendships
  • Respectful relationships
  • Online relationships
  • Being safe

These areas of learning are taught within the context of family life, taking care to make sure that there is no stigmatisation of children based on their home circumstances:

  • Foster/Adoptive Families
  • Racially Diverse Families
  • Culturally Diverse Families
  • Blended Families
  • Extended Families
  • Childless Families
  • Amongst other structures and including combinations of arrangements above

Children will also learn that parents may be single, adoptive, foster, same-sex, grand-parents amongst many others. We will ensure that the curriculum is taught sensitively, acknowledging that some children may have a different structure of support around them (for example, looked-after children or young carers).

We will actively promote the rights of people who may experience prejudice in their everyday lives, paying attention to the law and relevant legal requirements. We will challenge prejudice and ensure that children understand their legal responsibility not to engage in illegal political activity, such as violent action against people, criminal damage to property, hate crime, terrorism or the illegal use of drugs.

  1.  Inclusivity

We will teach in a manner which:

  • Considers how materials and topics relate to a diverse range of children
  • Is sensitive to all children’s experiences
  • Makes children feel safe, supported and able to engage with the key messages

We will also make sure that children learn about these topics in an environment that’s appropriate for them, for example in:

  • A whole-class setting
  • Small groups or targeted sessions
  • Using a variety of formats
  • Give careful consideration to the level of differentiation needed

  1.  Use of resources

We will consider whether any resources we plan to use:

  • Are aligned with the teaching requirements set out in the statutory RSE guidance
  • Would support children in applying their knowledge in different contexts and settings
  • Are age-appropriate, given the age, developmental stage and background of our children 
  • Are evidence-based and contain robust facts and statistics
  • Fit into our curriculum plan
  • Are from credible sources
  • Are compatible with effective teaching approaches
  • Are sensitive to childrens’ experiences and won’t provoke distress  

7. Use of external organisations and materials

We will make sure that an agency and any materials used are appropriate and in line with our legal duties around political impartiality.

The school remains responsible for what is said to children. This includes making sure that any speakers, tools and resources used don’t undermine the fundamental British values of democracy, the rule of law, individual liberty, and mutual respect and tolerance of those with different faiths and beliefs.  

We will:

  • Make appropriate checks and engage with external agencies to make sure that their approach to teaching about RSE is balanced and the resources they intend to use:
  • Are age-appropriate
  • Are in line with children’ developmental stage
  • Comply with:
  • Only work with external agencies where we have full confidence in the agency, its approach and the resources it uses
  • Make sure that any speakers and resources meet the intended outcome of the relevant part of the curriculum
  • Review any case study materials and look for feedback from other people the agency has worked with

  • Be clear on:
  • What they’re going to say
  • Their position on the issues to be discussed
  • Ask to see in advance any materials that the agency may use  
  • Know the named individuals who will be there, and follow our usual safeguarding procedures for these people
  • Conduct a basic online search and address anything that may be of concern to us, or to parents and carers
  • Check the agency’s protocol for taking pictures or using any personal data they might get from a session
  • Remind teachers that they can say “no” or, in extreme cases, stop a session  
  • Make sure that the teacher is in the room during any sessions with external speakers  

We won’t, under any circumstances:

  • Work with external agencies that take or promote extreme political positions
  • Use materials produced by such agencies, even if the material itself is not extreme

8. Roles and responsibilities

8.1 The governing board

The governing board will hold the headteacher to account for the implementation of this policy.

The governing board has retained responsibility for the approval of this policy to the Headteacher.

8.2 The headteacher

The headteacher is responsible for ensuring that RSE is taught consistently across the school, and for managing requests to withdraw children from components of RSE (see section 9).

8.3 Staff

Staff are responsible for:

  • Delivering RSE in a sensitive way
  • Modelling positive attitudes to RSE
  • Monitoring progress
  • Responding to the needs of individual children
  • Responding appropriately to children whose parents wish them to be withdrawn from components of RSE

Staff do not have the right to opt out of teaching RSE. Staff who have concerns about teaching RSE are encouraged to discuss this with the headteacher.

All teaching staff are expected to take part in the delivery of the RSE curriculum.

8.4 Children

Children are expected to engage fully in RSE and, when discussing issues related to RSE, treat others with respect and sensitivity.

9. Parents’ right to withdraw

Parents do not have the right to withdraw their children from relationships education. The Academy will ensure that RSE is taught in a sensitive manner, taking into account children’s context and prior experiences.

10. Training

Staff are trained on the delivery of RSE as part of their induction and it is included in our continuing professional development calendar.

The headteacher will also invite visitors from outside the school, such as school nurses or sexual health professionals, to provide support and training to staff teaching RSE.

11. Monitoring arrangements

The delivery of RSE is monitored by Lorna Whitehead through termly learning walks, scrutiny of work and children voice

Childrens’ development in RSE is monitored by class teachers as part of our internal assessment systems.

This policy will be reviewed by Lorna Whitehead (Personal Development Leader), Asma Majid (DSL) and Ryan Lewis (Headteacher). At every review, the policy will be approved by the governing board and The Co-op Academies Trust.

Appendix 1: Curriculum map

Relationships and sex education curriculum map

Half-termly unit titles

Year Group

Autumn 1

Me and my Relationships

Autumn 2

Valuing Difference

Spring 1

Keeping Safe

Spring 2

Rights and Respect

Summer 1

Being my Best

Summer 2

Growing and Changing

 

EYFS

 

What makes me special

People close to me

Getting help

Similarities and difference

Celebrating difference

Showing kindness

Keeping my body safe

Safe secrets and touches

People who help to keep us safe

Looking after things:

Friends

Environment

Money

Keeping by body healthy Food

Exercise

Sleep

Growth Mindset

Cycles

Life stages

Girls and boys – similarities and difference

 

Y1

 

 

 

Feelings

Getting help

Classroom rules

Special people

Being a good friend

Recognising, valuing and celebrating difference

Developing respect and accepting others

Bullying and getting help

How our feelings can keep us safe – including online safety

Safe and unsafe touches

Medicine Safety

Sleep

Taking care of things:

Myself

My money

My environment

Growth Mindset

Healthy eating

Hygiene and health

Cooperation

Getting help

Becoming independent

My body parts

Taking care of self and others

 

Y2

 

 

 

Bullying and teasing

Our school rules about bullying

Being a good friend

Feelings/self-regulation

 Being kind and helping others

 Celebrating difference

 People who help us

 Listening Skills

Safe and unsafe secrets

Appropriate touch

Medicine safety

 

Cooperation

Self-regulation

Online safety

Looking after money – saving and spending

Growth Mindset

Looking after my body

Hygiene and health

Exercise and sleep

Life cycles

Dealing with loss

Being supportive

Growing and changing

Privacy

 

Y3

 

Rules and their purpose

Cooperation

Friendship (including respectful relationships)

Coping with loss

Recognising and respecting diversity

Being respectful and tolerant

My community

Managing risk

Decision-making skills

Drugs and their risks

Staying safe online

Skills we need to develop as we grow up

Helping and being helped

Looking after the environment

Managing money

Keeping myself healthy and well

Celebrating and developing my skills

Developing empathy

Relationships

Changing bodies and puberty

Keeping safe

Safe and unsafe secrets

 

Y4

 

Healthy relationships

Listening to feelings

Bullying

Assertive skills

Recognising and celebrating difference (including religions and cultural difference)

Understanding and challenging stereotypes

Managing risk

Understanding the norms of drug use (cigarette and alcohol use)

Influences

Online safety

Making a difference (different ways of helping others or the environment)

Media influence

Decisions about spending money

Having choices and making decisions about my health

Taking care of my environment

My skills and interests

Body changes during puberty

Managing difficult feelings

Relationships including marriage

 

Y5

 

 

Feelings

Friendship skills, including compromise

Assertive skills

Cooperation

Recognising emotional needs

Recognising and celebrating difference, including religions and cultural

Influence and pressure of social media

Managing risk, including online safety

Norms around use of legal drugs (tobacco, alcohol)

Decision-making skills

  Rights, respect and duties  relating to my health

  Making a difference

  Decisions about lending, borrowing and spending

 

 Growing independence and taking ownership

Keeping myself healthy

 Media awareness and safety

 My community

 

Managing difficult feelings

Managing change

How my feelings help keeping safe

Getting help

 

Y6

 

 

Assertiveness

Cooperation

Safe/unsafe touches

Positive relationships

Recognising and celebrating difference

Recognising and reflecting on prejudice-based bullying

Understanding Bystander behaviour

Gender stereotyping

Understanding emotional needs

Staying safe online

  Drugs: norms and risks (including the law)

Understanding media bias, including social media

Caring: communities and the environment

Earning and saving money

Understanding democracy

  Aspirations and goal setting

  Managing risk

 Looking after my mental health

 

 

Coping with changes

Keeping safe

Body Image

Self-esteem

DfE Parents Guide

https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/907638/RSE_primary_schools_guide_for_parents.pdf

Appendix 2: By the end of primary school children should know

TOPIC

children SHOULD KNOW

Families and people who care about me

  • That families are important for children growing up because they can give love, security and stability
  • The characteristics of healthy family life, commitment to each other, including in times of difficulty, protection and care for children and other family members, the importance of spending time together and sharing each other’s lives
  • That others’ families, either in school or in the wider world, sometimes look different from their family, but that they should respect those differences and know that other children’s families are also characterised by love and care
  • That stable, caring relationships, which may be of different types, are at the heart of happy families, and are important for children’s security as they grow up
  • That marriage represents a formal and legally recognised commitment of two people to each other which is intended to be lifelong
  • How to recognise if family relationships are making them feel unhappy or unsafe, and how to seek help or advice from others if needed

Caring friendships

  • How important friendships are in making us feel happy and secure, and how people choose and make friends
  • The characteristics of friendships, including mutual respect, truthfulness, trustworthiness, loyalty, kindness, generosity, trust, sharing interests and experiences and support with problems and difficulties
  • That healthy friendships are positive and welcoming towards others, and do not make others feel lonely or excluded
  • That most friendships have ups and downs, and that these can often be worked through so that the friendship is repaired or even strengthened, and that resorting to violence is never right
  • How to recognise who to trust and who not to trust, how to judge when a friendship is making them feel unhappy or uncomfortable, managing conflict, how to manage these situations and how to seek help or advice from others, if needed

Respectful relationships

  • The importance of respecting others, even when they are very different from them (for example, physically, in character, personality or backgrounds), or make different choices or have different preferences or beliefs
  • Practical steps they can take in a range of different contexts to improve or support respectful relationships
  • The conventions of courtesy and manners
  • The importance of self-respect and how this links to their own happiness
  • That in school and in wider society they can expect to be treated with respect by others, and that in turn they should show due respect to others, including those in positions of authority
  • About different types of bullying (including cyberbullying), the impact of bullying, responsibilities of bystanders (primarily reporting bullying to an adult) and how to get help
  • What a stereotype is, and how stereotypes can be unfair, negative or destructive
  • The importance of permission-seeking and giving in relationships with friends, peers and adults

Online relationships

  • That people sometimes behave differently online, including by pretending to be someone they are not
  • That the same principles apply to online relationships as to face-to face relationships, including the importance of respect for others online including when we are anonymous
  • The rules and principles for keeping safe online, how to recognise risks, harmful content and contact, and how to report them
  • How to critically consider their online friendships and sources of information including awareness of the risks associated with people they have never met
  • How information and data is shared and used online

Being safe

  • What sorts of boundaries are appropriate in friendships with peers and others (including in a digital context)
  • About the concept of privacy and the implications of it for both children and adults; including that it is not always right to keep secrets if they relate to being safe
  • That each person’s body belongs to them, and the differences between appropriate and inappropriate or unsafe physical, and other, contact
  • How to respond safely and appropriately to adults they may encounter (in all contexts, including online) whom they do not know
  • How to recognise and report feelings of being unsafe or feeling bad about any adult
  • How to ask for advice or help for themselves or others, and to keep trying until they are heard
  • How to report concerns or abuse, and the vocabulary and confidence needed to do so
  • Where to get advice e.g. family, school and/or other sources